Make the Most of Your First Reading (with a new psychic or your first reading ever)

When you call a psychic for the first time, whether it's your first time ever getting a psychic reading or just your first time calling that specific reader, there are several things you can do to make the most of your reading. Although many readers make a strong connection with their callers after four to five minutes, the first two to three minutes are the most important to the caller. You will decide within the first few minutes if you should continue your session with the psychic you've chosen. It's very similar to reading a new book--if the first couple of pages are great, you will read the entire book, but if you find it difficult to "get into" you will put the book down and never look at it again.

The first thing you can do to make the most of your first reading is prepare yourself for the reading. You want to have a notepad handy to write down significant information the psychic relays to you, and before you call, you should write down the questions you want to ask. It is imperative that you ask the right questions in those first two to three minutes!! DO NOT ask if there's a new romantic partner coming into your life if you currently have your heart set on someone you already know! The better plan is to ask about your true heart's desire first and then you can ask if there is someone else you should keep your heart open to after you've learned what you really wanted to know.

You need to be mindful of the way you ask your questions as well. Very few readers will require any more than the first names of yourself and anyone you're inquiring about, so you don't need to give the psychic very much information. However, you must not give misleading or false information; this will practically GAURANTEE a dissatisfying reading! A client recently called me to ask why two psychics can give two vastly different readings. I began by explaining that we don't always connect with everyone and a reader that connects extremely well with her may not connect as well with her best friend, for example. As we continued to talk, she told me what she had asked the other reader. She began by asking the reader if she would ever get married and when. Next she asked, "Will it be the man I'm currently seeing?" That's where the reading went downhill. Of course the other reader answered no, because the caller was not currently seeing anyone! She was close friends with a man who she had her heart set on, but the way she asked the question was misleading and dishonest. She ended her call with that reader after only two minutes, but she could have had a wonderful, enlightening session if she'd only been mindful of the way she asked what she truly wanted to know.

The final thing you need to do to prepare for the reading is relax and take a few deep breaths. If you are agitated or anxious when you call, you may not get the best experience possible either. It is best to be calmed and relaxed, and in a private location free of distractions. The chances are you are going to be discussing personal and private matters with the psychic you've chosen, so do not call when you don't have the privacy needed. If you know that your children or pets tend to "act up" when you're on the telephone, it would be best to call when they are sleeping or otherwise engaged in other activities and less likely to require your immediate attention.

These tips will help you to make the most of the first few minutes with your chosen psychic. If you follow them you will have a much better chance of experiencing a strong connection with the psychic quickly and receiving the insight and guidance you really needed. When you have established this connection with the psychic, your follow up calls will also be more rewarding—and you can call in with a quick question and even less than desirable surroundings (but please do not call from your cell phone when you’re driving; pull over and be safe). However, if you don't have the necessary privacy and are forced to talk quietly, you run the risk of a poor experience with even your most trusted psychic advisor because if he or she cannot hear your question, it's extremely difficult to answer you!

Remember:

• have a notepad ready to write down important information
• write down the questions you want to ask, starting with the most important ones first
• ask your questions directly and honestly, without any misleading or false information
• be calm and relaxed
• make sure you have privacy and reduce possible distractions
• speak clearly so your psychic can hear you

~*~Monica Who~*~